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Strategic Anniversary Gifts

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When you get married there are many things to remember, one of the most important is the date you were married on. The reason this is so important to you is that it’s important to your wife. For most men the day you were married is just another day, but to your wife this is the day they have waited for since they were little girls. To put this into context, by the time your wife was 10 years old, she had many imaginary weddings. By the time she was 20 years old, she had planned at least one location, and possibly how the ceremony would unfold. What this means is that the anniversary is the opportunity to recognize the big day, and she wants you to make a big deal of it.

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That said, being prepared is the best way to make this happen. You (the husband) are going to need an anniversary gift. Use the traditional and modern anniversary gift lists to help guide you to the right gift. Before you go pick something out, think about the strategy to anniversary gift giving.

1. Don’t set the bar too high, if you start by giving expensive gifts the expectation will be that all the gifts are going to be expensive. Gradually build up to more expensive gifts.

2. Avoid gifts that backfire. For example, clothes that are too big might be misconstrued as an insult about her weight. This includes the functional gift group, for example, Vacuum Cleaners. While you and your wife may agree that these are necessary items to purchase, save them for another time.

3. Where to do your shopping. Stores that you would typically never go into, are exactly where you should be going. For example, stores that specialize in creams, soaps, and spa treatments.

Standard Anniversary Gifts by Years Married

Year Traditional Gift Modern Gift
1st Paper Clocks
2nd Cotton China
3rd Leather Crystal, Glass
4th Linen, Silk Electrical Appliances
5th Wood Silverware
6th Iron Wood
7th Wool, Copper Desk Sets, Pen and Pencil Sets
8th Bronze Linen, Lace
9th Pottery, China Leather
10th Tin, Aluminum Diamonds, Jewelry
11th Steel Fashion Jewelry, Accessories
12th Silk Pearls, Colored Gems
13th Lace Textiles, Furs
14th Ivory (Pick Jewelry instead) Gold, Jewelry
15th Crystal Watches
16th Silverware Silver holloware
17th Furniture Furniture
18th Porcelain Porcelain
19th Bronze Bronze
20th China Platinum
21st Brass; Nickel Brass, Nickel
22nd Copper Copper
23rd Silver Plate Silver Plate
24th Opal Musical Instruments
25th Silver Sterling Silver
26th Pictures Original Pictures
27th Sculptures Sculpture
28th Orchids Orchids
29th Furniture New Furniture
30th Pearl Diamond
31st * Timepieces
32nd * Conveyances
33rd * Amethyst
34th * Opal
35th Coral Jade
36th * Bone China
37th * Alabaster
38th * Beryl, Tourmaline
39th * Lace
40th Ruby Ruby
41st * Land
42nd * Improved real Estate
43rd * Travel
44th * Groceries
45th Sapphire Sapphire
46th * Original Poetry Tribute
47th * Books
48th * Optical Goods
49th * Luxury items
50th Gold Gold
55th Emerald Emerald
60th Diamond Diamond
75th Diamonds, gold Diamonds, gold

*Indicates no designated material

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